They figure in Shakespeare's plays, classical Greek myths, and folk tales from every corner of the world. Neighbor disputes are as old as civilization itself, but today, a spat over the backyard fence is likely to result in a court date, rather than just decades of ill will and bad blood. If you have a problem with one of your neighbors, the first step you should take is trying to resolve the dispute informally, using a rational approach paired with plenty of kindness and empathy. If this method falls short, consider calling in the help of a neutral third party, such as a mediator or conflict resolution specialist. In some cases, a representative of your homeowners association may be able to lend a hand in resolving the dispute. If your neighbor problem revolves around behavior that violates a municipal code, such as noisy parties, unkempt lawns, or other hostile behavior, you may be able to ask local law enforcement to step in. If the issue you are working to resolve has to do with something more complex, such as a property boundary issue, it may be beneficial to seek the advice of a qualified attorney in the matter.